The Process of Sexual Balancing in Human Life
PUBERTY EMBARKS THE SOUL INTO A VARIETY OF ACQUIRING BALANCING
The Time to Begin Balancing, Looking at Your Self with Understanding in Character, and Learning how Sex and Relationships will fit into your Life
Let go of Shame, Guilt, & Fear!
If you see it through to the end of Balancing which your INDIVIDUAL JOURNEY calls your exploration into - then your chances of coming into realizing that your own Love is the date you want to get asked to twice.
Remember this, that the experiences in puberty and sexual exploration of the other sex / or same sex is a natural part of the individuals evolution as a being in Awareness. Bridging both the human body's physiological development and producing the entirely new thought-constructs which the perspectives of the individual will build their reality upon moving forward.
Respect others. Be honest, open, and authentic. Do not feel shame. Do not feel guilt. Get it out. Accept it. Give others your full tolerance and acceptance; even if you don't understand why they are choosing to experiment or explore in the way which they are - you may even find it offensive or maybe even repulsive at times. The more you accept and tolerate others' choices in life experiencing with a fully open-heart, Unconditionally Loving All People no matter their choices of differences. Then the more you begin to find your own mind's self-judgements or fears you have of being judged for your own unique choices - Experience the Exploration Phases. Be Safe. Learn Who You Are, Before Making Any Great Leaps (like bringing a baby into the world, what career you will aim for, etc)
If you see it through to the end of Balancing which your INDIVIDUAL JOURNEY calls your exploration into - then your chances of coming into realizing that your own Love is the date you want to get asked to twice.
Remember this, that the experiences in puberty and sexual exploration of the other sex / or same sex is a natural part of the individuals evolution as a being in Awareness. Bridging both the human body's physiological development and producing the entirely new thought-constructs which the perspectives of the individual will build their reality upon moving forward.
Respect others. Be honest, open, and authentic. Do not feel shame. Do not feel guilt. Get it out. Accept it. Give others your full tolerance and acceptance; even if you don't understand why they are choosing to experiment or explore in the way which they are - you may even find it offensive or maybe even repulsive at times. The more you accept and tolerate others' choices in life experiencing with a fully open-heart, Unconditionally Loving All People no matter their choices of differences. Then the more you begin to find your own mind's self-judgements or fears you have of being judged for your own unique choices - Experience the Exploration Phases. Be Safe. Learn Who You Are, Before Making Any Great Leaps (like bringing a baby into the world, what career you will aim for, etc)
Reproductive Centered Mind vs. The Heart Centered Mind
The Monkey Thinking or The Consciousness Thinking - What Will You Choose?
The Monkey Thinking or The Consciousness Thinking - What Will You Choose?
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Bring Your Awareness to the Evolution Our Collective had put forth into the Processing of this Vital Human Experience just in the Recent past...
Previous generations were infected with fears, shames, false-beliefs, and the ideas of the sexual exploration. The ideas they had raised many of the generations nearing retirement or senior age groups were built out of the Church's ideals. And that meant if those relatives of your bloodline, say your parents - going into being attracted to one another / or someone and having to carry the weight of guilt and shame which would could possibly fall upon them (especially the girls) if caught. As if the self - scrutiny isn't the ultimate foe - in some cases the entire community would begin treating and looking at a young woman with scoldering eyes and judgemental sneers as they made sure to treat her like a leper given she had been caught, became pregnant, or even rumored. Now look at us go today! As soon as the youth enters high school, the sexual exploration begins for most and with a multiple partner exploration - while also being able to communicate about it with friends if desired. Now we should focus more on being safe and protecting ourselves from accidentally forfeiting our prime years to have an early unexpected child. We got that balancing out. Although still a widely individual journey to find the end outlook and feeling desired. AND NOW with a lot less fears, misconceptions or entanglements into religious dogmatic ideas - leaving our younger crowds path a journey with much less judgements and blockages preventing the smooth flow of that part of our human process. Resulting in our future generations being able to navigate through these confusing and uncomfortable times more and more effectively each generation that passes -- Allowing for the finding of one's own true happiness in love and relationships - as defined by the individual. |
The Heart Is the Transmitter of Our Individual Frequency
Truth be told; the Consciousness in Essence is Sourced from the center of the Heart. Your Heart pulsates out an Electromagnetic Field around you and your body which is identical to the Earth with her Electromagnetic Field. We feel these bodies, we feel that we are seeing out of our eyes. We look in the mirror and this reaffirms this belief. We use our hands and touch our face which reaffirms the feeling of our sight coming from our eyes. But the truth is - we are frequency. Being transmitted through what we see as our Heart. And received through this same area. We pick up on the heart transmissions of others - and then we see a physical representation of that individual expression. Although you may not be entirely seeing correctly, as their heart is of the same origin as your own heart. With the whole of living humans in the present beating through the planets heart. Which again, is viewed as a frequency (electro-magnetic), not a physical outlet like an organ. Finding your perspectives imbalanced when it comes to sex and the focuses you place on it, the space and time you allow it to take precedence in your mind over the other important things in life --- The following can be practiced on a daily basis. |
Placing Our Conscious Intention to Bring Our Center Back into Our Heart
Using the Intentionality and Visualization Techniques again, we will begin bringing our focused center of thought and consciousness back into the center of the Heart and grounding into the Present moment.
Using the Intentionality and Visualization Techniques again, we will begin bringing our focused center of thought and consciousness back into the center of the Heart and grounding into the Present moment.
- Sit quietly and without distraction for short meditative exercise (although can be done at anytime you feel so called -It's very simple)
- Bring both hands up to the center of your chest, folding them both palm down onto your chest below the collar bone however you feel comfortable in doing so.
- Closing your eyes, take a deep breath envisioning you're breathing into and through that center where you feel your hands laying over.
- Visualize a white light (or whatever comes to mind) and consciously restate the intention "I am calling my conscious center and focus back to my Heart Center."
Sexual Inappropriateness, Heightened Focus on Sexual Intercourse as Priority or Important Staple for Happy Relationships, Suppressed Energies of the Denied Desires in Expression.
The excitement of relations with another individual is often thwarted by shame or guilt for the misguided perceptions of sex, as covered in above. The times of the past in this culture we have seen a great misleading of sexual expression. The demonizing of sexual intercourse between individuals especially before marriage, the criticism of women for sexual expression, and the misunderstandings of a soul who's committed sexual acts with a child.
When the sexual exploration and expressing is experienced at the time of surfacing in a maturing boy or girl. Rather than shut down by fears or misunderstood in shame, which leaves it open until closed. Avoidance, denial, and ignorance will not make it go away for it is part of the experience you came to learn. And when the process is completed; whether it be at 17 or 37 years of age, we see a full circle return to the Faithful, Lifelong, True Romantic Relationship between TWO Individuals. The Partnership of Two.
It may look and even feel like One is without attachment to ONE other or even losing Love somewhere in the Act of Sex. Which Love and Sex can get confusing. But Love is Felt within, throughout, and known by the heart - without words, without reason, without logic, without thought or attention going anywhere or to anyone else - now that the balancing has taken place and assuming the Union is found in another Soul/Person; the desire to express with others can be found to be more related to a seeking for love and feeding that underlying feeling of lacking self love.
When the 'right one' will come along after the balancing has already taken place in an individual's life - the idea of physical 'needs' proves to be a shadow part acting out of fears and lack - rather than the acting out of sex for pure fun and freedom as previously viewed by many of the individuals.
Sex with Multiple Partners Can Be a Sign of Traumas and Avoidance
Feeds a part of the individual which is in Fear to open their heart fully. Perhaps past relationship experiences, family issues, or the complete distain for the opposite sex has carried an individual to objectify the sexual intercourse they continue on with say, maybe into their 30's. When is it time to grow up? When is it time to stop running from the fact that you are only avoiding love and commitment out of your own fears around abandonment, betrayal, or just being let down again. Now you find yourself with the person of your dreams in front of you (which is even more scary in promoting the open relationship), because once that love is felt again...the fear of losing it again - will bring ultra shockwaves of rebound.
It's not that sexual relations have to be carried out between 2 individuals in marriage. But the story of Creation is all about balance. It is all about the first Limitless One, which at some point split and created a second. Opposite and equal in balance to the contrasts kept in the source. At first there was one, and then there were two. And to get home the road leads back to one.
One will understand their own use of sex through coming to finally experience this complete union physical, emotional, and spiritual for themselves. Realizing the difference between seeking pleasure in the instance of someone who is strictly having sex with someone for the orgasm, act, and attention - without love, desire, or passions in being with that soul in balance and unity - this is furthering that external reaching of their much needed love that comes from within and not from the exchange between lower leveled individuals that find themselves doing this.
For the use of sex was an echo from the infancy. As the mother nurses the baby, and the breastmilk / formula fed to the newborn, out of response by the mother (or father) whom silence the cries of their newborn with a warm serving of milk. Thus, creating the wildest, most deep-seated thought constructs/belief system that any one of us will come to face during this life. A reward system was created in those early years, without being consciously aware to this behavior the answered cries of the baby are met with the dopamine releasing ingestion of their breast milk.
The body will feel more full and healthy - that is; if hunger is what the infant was even crying about in the first place (but we do not know the truth to there cries, only that certain actions can be taken to shut them up for a while). And that is what the cause and effect syndrome which has been developed into a solid anchor for many of the infants upcoming imbalances in behaviors as they reach adulthood, and even playing key roles in the choices that addicts make, gamblers, depression diagnosed individuals, and many other ailments affecting our population today.
When the sexual exploration and expressing is experienced at the time of surfacing in a maturing boy or girl. Rather than shut down by fears or misunderstood in shame, which leaves it open until closed. Avoidance, denial, and ignorance will not make it go away for it is part of the experience you came to learn. And when the process is completed; whether it be at 17 or 37 years of age, we see a full circle return to the Faithful, Lifelong, True Romantic Relationship between TWO Individuals. The Partnership of Two.
It may look and even feel like One is without attachment to ONE other or even losing Love somewhere in the Act of Sex. Which Love and Sex can get confusing. But Love is Felt within, throughout, and known by the heart - without words, without reason, without logic, without thought or attention going anywhere or to anyone else - now that the balancing has taken place and assuming the Union is found in another Soul/Person; the desire to express with others can be found to be more related to a seeking for love and feeding that underlying feeling of lacking self love.
When the 'right one' will come along after the balancing has already taken place in an individual's life - the idea of physical 'needs' proves to be a shadow part acting out of fears and lack - rather than the acting out of sex for pure fun and freedom as previously viewed by many of the individuals.
Sex with Multiple Partners Can Be a Sign of Traumas and Avoidance
Feeds a part of the individual which is in Fear to open their heart fully. Perhaps past relationship experiences, family issues, or the complete distain for the opposite sex has carried an individual to objectify the sexual intercourse they continue on with say, maybe into their 30's. When is it time to grow up? When is it time to stop running from the fact that you are only avoiding love and commitment out of your own fears around abandonment, betrayal, or just being let down again. Now you find yourself with the person of your dreams in front of you (which is even more scary in promoting the open relationship), because once that love is felt again...the fear of losing it again - will bring ultra shockwaves of rebound.
It's not that sexual relations have to be carried out between 2 individuals in marriage. But the story of Creation is all about balance. It is all about the first Limitless One, which at some point split and created a second. Opposite and equal in balance to the contrasts kept in the source. At first there was one, and then there were two. And to get home the road leads back to one.
One will understand their own use of sex through coming to finally experience this complete union physical, emotional, and spiritual for themselves. Realizing the difference between seeking pleasure in the instance of someone who is strictly having sex with someone for the orgasm, act, and attention - without love, desire, or passions in being with that soul in balance and unity - this is furthering that external reaching of their much needed love that comes from within and not from the exchange between lower leveled individuals that find themselves doing this.
For the use of sex was an echo from the infancy. As the mother nurses the baby, and the breastmilk / formula fed to the newborn, out of response by the mother (or father) whom silence the cries of their newborn with a warm serving of milk. Thus, creating the wildest, most deep-seated thought constructs/belief system that any one of us will come to face during this life. A reward system was created in those early years, without being consciously aware to this behavior the answered cries of the baby are met with the dopamine releasing ingestion of their breast milk.
The body will feel more full and healthy - that is; if hunger is what the infant was even crying about in the first place (but we do not know the truth to there cries, only that certain actions can be taken to shut them up for a while). And that is what the cause and effect syndrome which has been developed into a solid anchor for many of the infants upcoming imbalances in behaviors as they reach adulthood, and even playing key roles in the choices that addicts make, gamblers, depression diagnosed individuals, and many other ailments affecting our population today.
THE BABY HAS LEARNED:
'I cry. Mother brings Milk to feed me. I feel relaxed, warm, and loved. Able to drift off comfortably into sleep.'
Just like the reward system which is hardwired into our human psyche and behavioral patterns - the very same idea is utilized in Business's Marketing Designs across all industries.
Recently documentary on Netflix, which covered the testimonies of ex-google employees and social media programmers - revealing how their entire focus was primarily on how to make the platforms as addicting as possible.
Example of a Reward System:
1. I post a picture on social media, and it gets 3 likes total..... Ouch.
2. I post a picture again on social media, this time getting 55 likes total... Not I'm really feeling good, successful, accepted, and loved.
Recently documentary on Netflix, which covered the testimonies of ex-google employees and social media programmers - revealing how their entire focus was primarily on how to make the platforms as addicting as possible.
Example of a Reward System:
1. I post a picture on social media, and it gets 3 likes total..... Ouch.
2. I post a picture again on social media, this time getting 55 likes total... Not I'm really feeling good, successful, accepted, and loved.
What you decide to make of the whole sexual relations experience is entirely up to you. But the importance of identifying your unconscious reasoning that leads to the type of decision-making & behavioral patterns that you have come to accept as being a satisfactory or normal part of your life. When really there is a little girl, or boy, inside you that wishes there care and attention given to the past traumas and experiences which built your sex-life that is now part of you.