Do you ever wonder why Dementia exists? Why is it as we advance and prolong our lifespans that certain individuals show the symptoms of becoming someone or acting in someway that they had never before displayed in their lifetime?
The Shadow which many of us are healing during our Spiritual Awakening process will find it's way to the surface at some point or another.
Each individual is experiencing a completely unique feeling, perspective, and personality - which makes it impossible to heal their underlying issues based off the studies of another persons experiences.
When One is faced with a Low in Life, the internal investigation must proceed. Asking oneself:
Let go of Labeling
The time Is over for labeling the feelings we experience in life as something "bad" or "wrong".
The time is over for denying control in the feeling of these feelings, and the healing of them as well.
See that the psychiatric community's answer is in medicating. Prescribing of bandaids that cover up the feelings, without healing the wounds. Which these wounds, or areas of our life are simply waiting for the attention and love which all parts of our experience should receive.
Just like the Love and Tolerance of other Humans
We must hold this Love and Tolerance for Ourselves.
All aspects of ourselves: without judgement, without contempt.
It Truly Is that Simple - Love is the Answer.
Yet we cannot ignore the why to what we are experiencing.
Something like a depression or low-point in life -1. You are experiencing a feeling. 2. Underneath that feeling is a behavior or thought. 3. That is where attention of love and understanding should be focused. Heal
Why Someone Experiences 'Dementia'
This is the time of life which your ignored fractals of identity are going to take the light and express.
When One shuts down any part of their identity, denying the expression or unconditional love to a true part of them. No matter how "wrong" it may seem. Or how misunderstood it is.
These parts of us; will stay there within the present moment (in the body) -waiting; until finally taking hold of the light (IDENTITY) for it's time to express without the mind's blocking or judgement to stop it.
Judgement by the self is the only judgement there is.
Which is no longer holding the lid over these ideas and thoughts. These desires to speak, be, or act in a way which was once shut down. And now the out of balanced thoughts are being expressed into the physical. And leaving the loved ones around these individuals at a painful loss.
For they have now met someone entirely different then the one they had grown accustom to knowing.
Now the shadow is holding the light & it is no less wrong then the judgement which was placed on it. For we know judgement is not a positive thing to do - but we only talk about judgement of others. The most important judgement is from within - towards within.
We see a man who we shall call Robert - Robert was a prominent business man, respected city official, and family man who by all means was a respectful and loving person to those around him and himself.
Then the onset of 'dementia' begin to take hold for it's expression into the physical. Robert begins to show anger towards those around him. He begins lashing out at his family for simple things like leaving a newspaper in a place that is not to his liking. Robert also begins saying inappropriate sexual things to females without regard for decency or respect to their comfort.
How could Robert, the respectful family man, turn into a person who is disrespectful to those around him with absolutely no patience for anything to not be his way.
The Newspaper--Expression of Anger/Lacking Patience
Robert spent his life not speaking his truth or setting boundaries for making it clear what he likes and expects. He never made his comforts the priority. Declaring that something simple like his appreciation for his newspaper to be in the same spot as he always has it.
So the Newspaper displacement becomes the catalyst for the unbalanced expression of this shut down aspect of Robert to finally freely speak. No personal qualm with the person who moved the newspaper - yet a revolutionary stand in his inner most self. To finally be heard.
Simply can be the shame and guilt one feels around sexual desires. The times of the past in this culture we have seen a great misleading of sexual expression. The demonizing of sexual intercourse between individuals, the criticism of women for sexual expression, the making of monsters out of all men for the choices of some men.
It's all very touchy to us here, as this was something which you had to be married to act upon until this century. Lot's of shut down sexual energy. Which lucky for us younger ones - we get to let that out. We get to understand it. Balance it. Be with it. Bring our perception to the healthy outlook on it. Giving the choice of sexual expression unconditional love and freedom to each individual to choose how they wish to express.
As we are coming to a time more freely open with sexual intercourse, same-gender relationships, inter-racial relationships. We are growing accepting of this normal part of the human experience and development.
Which - when the sexual exploration and expressing is experienced at the time of surfacing. Rather than shut down or denied. We will see a full circle return to the Faithful, Lifelong, True Romantic Relationship between TWO Individuals. The Partnership.
It may look and even feel like One is without attachment to ONE other or even losing Love somewhere in the Act of Sex. Which Love and Sex can get confusing. But Love is Felt within, throughout, and known by the heart - without words, without reason, without logic, without thought or attention going anywhere or to anyone else - now that the balancing has taken place and assuming the Union is found in another Soul/Person; the desire to express with others can be found to be more related to a seeking for love and underlying feeling of lacking self love.
When the 'right one' will come along after the balancing has already taken place in an individual's life - the idea of physical 'needs' proves to be a shadow part acting out - rather than acting out of freedom as previously viewed by many individuals.
Sex without Love - Feeds a part of the individual which is in Fear to open their heart fully. Perhaps past relationship experiences, family issues, or the desensitized views that negate the passion which Sex is meant to carry between 2 individuals. Sex and Love-when balanced, with a counter part soul to which our frequency matches - brings the heightened feelings of mind, body, and soul.
One will understand their own use of sex through coming to finally experience this complete union physical, emotional, and spiritual for themselves.
For the use of sex was an echo from the infancy. The Milk fed to the newborn - a cause and effect created in the Mind/Body of the baby. Baby comes to learn; 'I cry. Mother brings Milk to feed me. I feel relaxed, warm, and loved. Able to drift off and sleep.
Puberty in Humans - Let go of Shame
It is a natural part of the body / mind development which should not be shamed or demonized. For that creates demons out of the natural order of things. Quite unnecessary to contradict the biological evolution process- allowing for generations to grow with a shame or guilt around the nature of their bodies.
Respect others. Be honest, open, and authentic. Do not feel shame. Do not feel guilt. Get it out. Accept it. Then return to your Heart. Which happens naturally - so you won't need to force it. Only when the balancing is not expressed fully, then do we see the inappropriate acts of individuals.
Express Authentically & Avoid Suppressed Aspects of Your Identity:
You can avoid these conclusions in your body's life by allowing all parts of you to express or be acknowledged with Love.
We must not demonize or label a part of our own identity as anything other than Love. For everything we feel, think, and desire comes from Love - although it may be misplaced due to our own inability to accept it for what it is.
Robert could have avoided this final expression being of 'dementia':
By simply accepting without judgement and unconditionally loving himself for what he felt. To Freely be who you want to be, to experience what you want to experience, and follow the desires which call to your attention - this is the way out of unbalanced cycles echoing into the future.
Now we have the answers. We have the ways to not avoid this experience from expressing in our life. We can hold the Light and Express with Health by simply letting all that we are to express and be Loved.
Once you Love yourself for the aspects which you judge - you allow the closing of that cycle & detachment from that being you.
The racist person who thinks they dislike the people of another race.
Yet why is that? Well conditioning plays a huge role - which is often the most influential piece to this continuing belief system.
On a deeper level - the Soul of every individual on Earth comes here with One Truth. One underlying frequency which is the burning desire many feel as a calling to spiritual exploration. This One Truth being the knowledge of coming from One Source. All humans are of the same Making, and the Planet is of our own Spirit. Oneness on Earth. (then of course, universal).
Despite the physical apparent separation which plays a huge psychological trick on the feeling of Oneness. Then all the differing views of people, multiple cultures, colors, creeds, and ways of human form; all leading to this disconnect from the Knowing of that Oneness.
Yet the white supremacist and black panther whom find themselves head to head; for the judgement and focus on their differences. With their honor and beliefs held close to their heart, they unknowingly shield their heart further with misplaced love.
The Battle of Separation
So do the two separated individual expressions of White Supremacist and the Black Panther - a battle between two parts of the same whole.
We see the same demise in our friend Robert. Robert denies and judges himself.
Until at the end; only One will stand.
Who will you leave standing?
For we all came from one place. And we all return to where ever it is you believe we return.
But the biological truth is:
We are One Race, One Species, sharing One Home; Earth. This is an undeniable fact which is only deniable by the souls whom came to experience that separation and loss. Ignorant - truly. But still, the suffering is done upon their own Soul - not mine or yours.
A huge piece of their Soul is unable to be flowing connected to Source, or God. Disconnect.
Unable to just BE, even. And for that, they suffer while here on Earth. And upon review of life after.
Not that they will be judged by anyone other than themselves - their own judgement will be harsher than any other.
The Soul is so Good in nature and encoded deeply with unconditional love, Oneness, and Harmony - That when it comes to face the realization of becoming lost as such the case of a racist or hate filled existence - it will desire the understanding and knowledge of how it became so lost. Thus learning the missed piece.
Miracle - Circumstance. Two of the same thing -
We are all products of circumstance. An echoing result of experiences had in a time past, living now as if that is still real or ever was real.
I choose to believe everything happens just as it is meant to. Although it may feel like I'm lost at times, acting upon free will and making decisions which require extra thought for I may make the wrong choice. Yet, I believe at the end of the day - I followed the path set for myself. On the journey through this life which I planned to come and learn.
I came to Experience and Feel- so all those emotions which previously I thought of as bad or painful - became the golden nuggets for which I came to feel.
No feelings, emotions, or experiences being bad or wrong. All were a part of the master plan and my chosen experience which I have come to live, experience, and learn. Learn is a good word for my own beliefs - but you simply can just accept that you came here to experience. For that is another Truth which our Soul knows - the simplicity of being.
Existing is effortless my friends - the stresses, worries, and pains felt are all accepted by the one who feels them.
Creativity for Your Own Enjoyment
Most industries use creativity in a manner which is focused on Dollar$ or business - this is not a bad thing for one's creativity.
Everyone should try this:
Find practices to express creativity in forms which require no approval from others, no price tag set on it, and the creation of the finished product being for you only. Not to give away or pass on to someone else. Make it simply for your own ability to make it. Your own enjoyment.
Whether it be art, crafts, music, dance, exercise, or even decorating; do it for YOU. Create with the only purpose of your own acceptance. Your own satisfaction and appreciation.
Unlike the child who draws and then gives the picture to their mother
We must bring the expressing back in to ourselves. It's human nature to want to give and share our expressions. To show our creations and wait for the approval of someone else's love. Everyone does it, even when looking in the mirror in the morning.
Why do you get ready by making sure your hair is a certain way, your face clean, your outfit just right; Why?
You can say it's for you, because It's rewarding to look good. "Look good, feel good."
Okay, but stop - for the only reason you ever get ready Is for the outward expression and need for approval or acceptance of the outside world. It's for others. Even putting clothes on your body.
If it were up to you; unscathed from birth and unconditioned by others - you would prefer to be naked and free of these garments. It is not human nature to wear clothes, yet a condition and societal norm. No matter how subconscious it is. You can deny and argue this for your inability to see it - but no less is it a truth. Your soul prefers to be naked, sorry to tell you.
To conform to the norms, ensure your acceptance by others, and not be exposed / open for judgement.
You simply just do It each day of your life. Without thought or any investigation. It just seems normal now and why would you want to be naked in front of other people? I get it - I am wearing clothes quite frequently.
Well, you may have forgot how freeing that is. But you have become attached to your ideas around comparison of physical attributes to others, your body is the definition of your self love and you realize that. So if you are afraid to be naked and walk in nudist colony let's say
Which parts of your body are you most insecure about bearing? \
Reproductive Parts, Penis/Vagina - the most common place of any insecurity.
Our most vulnerable and private area on the body. Only for ourselves and the one's we wish to share intercourse with. But why this fear of bearing your body part? It's no different than any other part - yet we have gone through a life cycle which our body evolved. Our mind was right there with the body as it was evolving through these changes.
Our mind was constantly comparing, judging, and thinking critically on the body parts which changed. The sex organs began to define our thoughts and attach more to our identity. The choices made in life, the thoughts which we fed regularly were more centered in that region of the body. Therefor those hormones, those desires and needs were the consciousness which took forefront of our daily thoughts. Our focus became the sexual partnerships, experimenting, and experiencing of our body with another body.
Reproductive Centered Mind(Puberty) & The Heart Centered Mind
-We bring our focus to our Heart Center-
Focusing of our conscious attention. The visualization in our mind. The feeling of our chest, putting our hands there or just feeling what it feels like without touch.
We bring our Attention to Our Heart. For this is where you will find Peace in areas which may cause you confusion. The Heart will lead you to your truths. To your healing. To your own unconditional Love for your own self.
The Heart Is the transmitter of our frequency - the truth is - this experience feels very physical. We feel these bodies, we feel that we are seeing out of our eyes. We look in the mirror and this reaffirms this belief. We use our hands and touch our face which reaffirms the feeling of our sight coming from our eyes. But the truth is - we are frequency. Being transmitted through what we see as our Heart. And received through this same area.
We pick up on the heart transmissions of others - and then we see a physical representation of that individual expression. Although you may not be entirely seeing correctly, as their heart is of your heart. And your heart, theirs. All beating and transmitting from One Heart. The Earth's Heart.
While we are here anyway - and that should never be denied.
Your home at the current moment - Earth.
Your home - Body.
Your home - Thought.
I am. Being here Now.
Build your home to fit the Love, Peace, and Harmony as you see fit for your life. This focus will set you free from any suffering - while also allowing the family feel of this experience to be taken in for what it is.
Your Heart. My Heart.
Fathers Heart. Mothers Heart.
All are Frequency. All are Energy.
As you are. While feeling Physically.
You maintain Essentially - the true tone of your own Harmony.
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