Just have Faith. Trust that there is a Love-Driven order to all things. Realize that you are limitless, only limited by your own thoughts. You are Divine yourself, you are perfect always, and you are not lacking in anything. You are powerful, you are intelligent, you are made up of more than the physical body you see, and you are connected to all things.
Drop the sense of Self - Realize the Oneness of all things around you. Stop to understand the perfection with the inner-workings of your environment, of your body, of the Planet.
Realize that you came to this life for a reason. Your purpose speaks to you, and it's up to you to acknowledge it and not lose yourself in the distractions.
Do something you've always wanted to do, but thought you wouldn't be good at. Do something new today, do something new every week. Do something new as much as possible. Like always.
Explore the world. It's so huge and brilliant, with hidden treasures, unlimited new experiences, and beautifully unique sights and landscapes. This is your playground. You're meant to be on this planet and you're meant to experience all that you can on it, there is no finish line to the exploring and experiencing you can do.
You are here to Experience. Keep it that simple. Don't get caught up thinking you are here for anything other the Experience and sharing the Love. Focusing on careers, money, or anything material is only a distraction from what you're truly doing here. Don't fall for it.
Don't fall for waiting until retirement to do these things either. The average lifespan is 76-82 years of age. So you are here for maybe 75-85 times around the sun if you are lucky, and you are in your prime physical condition and best health during 20's and 30's. That's when your body is meant to explore and be pushed - use your window properly and don't worry about the future. Trust in Faith, and it will Provide.
Love, respect, and thank Earth regularly. Don't take for granted the beauty and awesomeness of Earth, and the fact that we are blessed to be able to survive here. She gives us all elements we need and energy that helps us every second. Make a vow to always treat her as the living and breathing organism she is.
Spend your money on memories today. Memories with your family, with your friends, with the community. Make memorable memories as often as possible. This is what Days are actually for. Don't get confused thinking days are for your work schedule or something. The time is for you to experience things with your loved ones, to laugh and love with those around you, to connect with one another and share love.
Be of service and offer love whenever the chance arises. This is what's on your resume when you leave here. Your good deeds and Love shared with those around you is what you leave here with, that's the only thing you can accumulate and take to the next life. Take time out of your life to help others, share your abundance, share your love, treat others with love - We are all family here.
Practice faith and trust in your Life. The more you trust and have Faith that you are in Good Hands, the more you will walk through obstacles with ease. The less you will be consumed by your own thoughts and projections of fears in hypothetical play by play scenarios in your head. Remember - everything that happens is for a reason, and it's all part of the plan. And it's a good plan.
Make any amends that you owe to those you may have hurt. Do not let any of your previous mistakes weigh on you today, drop the baggage and walk tall into tomorrow. Make right with any of your family or friends, where time and situations may have caused discord. Don't let pride or fear prevent the mending of relationships. Even if you don't see yourself in the wrong; make the first move to put it behind you. Your family is in your life for a reason, stick with them through thick and thin.
It doesn't have to be an amends. Reach out to old connections and share some love. Call that friend you haven't spoke to in 5 years, but was important to your life for the years preceding that. Pick up and call a friend to tell them how they've positively impacted your life. Just let them know you appreciate them being in your life, and they are important to you.
Contrary emotions and thoughts - Counter emotions of anger with a positive emotion and positive thoughts. As soon as you feel anger rising in you, focus on your breathing to calm yourself and think of loving thoughts and feel love. The emotion of Anger only hurts the person who is Angry. You being angry with someone does nothing for resolving issue, and hurts your energy field, your own thinking, and even physical symptoms hindering the body.
Share love every door you go through. Every room you enter bring love and positivity into. Your smile should be the facial expression for 85% of your day. Your daily goals should be less about the steps on your fit watch, and more about the amount of people you can positively interact with each day. Your presence, your energy, and your words will be used for uplifting others, sharing love and positivity.
You are perfect the way you are. But you do not need to abide by the guidelines of your own perception of perfection. This is a trap that leads to disappointment and negative thinking. So rather than focusing on when you make a mistake, focus more on the improvements you've made to get there.
Your mind will not just flip and go from the constant chatter and distractions of self, to calmness, faith and love, overnight. So allow yourself to grow at your own pace. And acknowledge that you are doing your best and you trust and have faith in it. Awareness of what your voice from your Heart and Soul sounds like, and the awareness of all the other voices is the biggest step. Then identifying when your Ego voice is the one speaking, and realizing all negative thinking or "I can't" "never" "not good enough" thoughts are not you, but actually conditioned fear voice.
Over your lifetime you've had experiences that were perceived as attacks, or maybe hurt you, threatened you, or scared you - which triggered your mind to go, I didn't like that. I need to prevent that from happening ever again. So now you have thoughts that have built up in your mind, with the intention of protecting you, but ultimately only hindering you and actually limiting your true self and potential.
We lose our True Selves through the layering and layering of these fear response thoughts over the years. Going 20 to 30, or maybe 40 years without these limiting thoughts getting checked back and balanced, can lead to all the mental health issues that are plaguing people today - depression, anxiety, social fears, etc. These will also prevent us from achieving what we came to do, experiencing what we really want to do, and living the life that we actually love.
It's as if the True Self, our Heart and Soul, gets drowned out by all these layers and conditionings, and we can completely lose touch with who we are, what makes us passionate and happy, what we want our lives to be. It takes active participation by you and me to keep the Heart and Soul voice and thoughts, audible and clear. We tend to dismiss these or think of these voices more as imagination or day dreamy thoughts. But in reality, the feeling you get in your gut and those thoughts that trigger excitement and warmth within you, is your Truth. Don't let what society's Truth currently portrays and don't adopt anyone else's Truth to be yours. Your Truth is what you came here with, and is what you are here to uncover and experience. Experience to the fullest. Every little aspect of it, what you day dreamt about in grade school growing up, and then still later in your adult life still popping into your head throughout your week. That day dream could be what you had set out to do in this life, and the very exact reason you came here.
Realizing for the better part of my life I’ve been reaching to External Things to make me feel loved, to feel happy, to feel confidence. Or relying on other people to calm my fears or insecurities and basing my own self image and truth upon others’ words.
This process has made me realize that is THE worst way to live. It’s a dead end when looking for true happiness. For your own self love. Your cup needs to be filled from within. I finally understand everything I ever needed. Everything I wanted and that feeling that I was missing something, but not quite being able to put my finger on what it is I’m actually missing.
Well this is what it was. The constant reaching and attaching myself to things outside of my own Spirit, Soul, Heart, or Divine Source within - is what has led to my unsatisfiable questions of How to Find True Happiness…How to Find Me!?
Who am I? Why am I here? Why do I always feel like there is more? Why do I feel I need to figure something out? What are we doing here? - These questions may not fully be answered during this Physical Experience we call Life here, but when you place your Faith and Trust in God, or the Divine Order of the Universe, or Love that Connects all things. Then you will begin to walk on a path that will lead you to finding these answers from within.
There is no one-way street on doing this. My experience of being Abruptly woken up September 1st and being worked on and with every night for 1 - 2 months is most likely not something you will experience. I am being told that all roads will lead to the Ultimate Answer that drive us to be searching, that drive us to search and question everything. And the Answer is, Every answer is within us. God is within us.
This is not a to be looked at as a religious description. I use the word God only because that’s what my Heart leads me to say and it feels right to me. If you say “Universe” or “The Divine” or “Grandfather Time” or “The Divine Feminine”, it literally doesn’t matter the Sounds or Words you choose to use - it’s about the intent and meaning behind it in your heart. Use Love.
Love is what we call an emotion. But it is so much more than that. It is a connection. It is a communication from something. It has power to it. When you feel love, it has healing power. It has confidence, the ability to fight fear, the ability to overcome and pain or discomfort you may be feeling emotionally. Think of the Love feeling as God’s or Your Divine Power’s Fingerprint in you. Christians call it the Holy Spirit. And every single human has it.
You just need to understand that. Feeling love, is that direct activation of the Holy Spirit. And when you quiet your mind enough, and allow your Heart to be Loud - you are able to allow the Spirit to do the beautiful.
Something I was doing in the beginning was picturing my body in White Light as I meditated. And it would help me feel that Love within. I also think it helps to Activate whatever DNA you have that is meant to be activated during this Life.
We live in a “reality” where we are conditioned that if we reach externally for happiness we can attain it. But the Truth is, that just brings you further and further from your Happiness & Answers. You can stack up all your money, all your gold, all your titles next to your name, the newest car, and the most beautiful friends - but not a single one of these things can give you True Happiness within. If anything it can distract you for sometime. But nothing can answer the eternal question in your soul you feel - other than you turning within.
Fill the cup from within.
For me, I just keep my prayers and meditation very strong. Morning, multiple times throughout the day, and night before bed. I try to stay ever connected to God or the Divine. And give all reliance and guidance over. I have bought a Bible, started going to Church, and just letting that Pour in and incubate me. Trust me, I had a stigmatic feeling towards Church and Religion, but now it’s not even about Religion anymore. Just about me connecting, about me being around Love and Positivity, about me understanding that everything is within me. And the reading of the Bible has been 100% different than I ever could have imagined. I read it not literal but I understand the hidden meanings behind these stories. The stories used to keep me away because I thought it was dogmatic, punishing, and unrealistic. But now I read it through new eyes and see all the hidden messages and meanings. And better yet the church I found has pastors that read and teach it in this same manner.
I’m not saying go buy Bible and join Church. Find whatever helps you to Fill your Cup from Within. It is all an extremely personal journey and where you find your Answer, will be different than where your best friend may find their answers.
Just have Faith in the Divine. Understand you have everything you need within you. Love is more than an emotion and you should try to feel it without basing it on external activators, rather turn within for it or even ask for it within.
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